To: Sully- who wrote (17116 ) 1/12/2006 1:15:46 PM From: Sully- Respond to of 35834 AP, Milbank Portray Graham as the Bad Guy Media Blog Stephen Spruiell Reporting Via Human Events, the AP report on the events that led Sam Alito's wife to leave the hearing room in tears got it all wrong, making it seem as though Sen. Lindsey Graham was responsible: <<< Martha-Ann Bomgardner, who had sat behind her husband for hours of questioning over several days, left as her husband was being questioned by Republican Sen. Lindsey Graham of South Carolina. "Judge Alito, I am sorry that you've had to go through this. I am sorry that your family has had to sit here and listen to this," said Graham. Moments earlier, the senator had asked Alito, "Are you really a closet bigot?" The nominee said no, and Graham said, "No sir, you're not." >>> MB reader Jeff H. points out that the Washington Post's Dana Milbank did the same thing: <<< As several more Democrats joined Kennedy's assault — Sen. Joseph R. Biden Jr. (Del.) donned a Princeton baseball cap for the occasion — Alito's replies grew more frantic. "I disavow them. I deplore them. They represent things that I have always stood against and I can't express too strongly," he told Sen. Lindsey O. Graham (R-S.C.). "If you don't mind the suspicious nature that I have, it's that you may be saying that because you want to get on the Supreme Court, that you're disavowing this now because it doesn't look too good," said Graham, trying to help Alito. "I'm going to be very honest with you," Graham continued. "Are you really a closet bigot?" Alito's ears turned scarlet. "I'm not any kind of bigot," he said, emotionally. "I'm not." Behind him, Martha Alito had had enough. She stood up, tissue in hand, and rushed to the back of the room, where Capitol Police whisked away the tearful woman. She didn't return for an hour. >>> As is clear to anyone who watches the video or reads the transcript, it was not any hostile questioning from Graham but rather his impassioned defense of Judge Alito's character that brought his wife to tears after a day of listening to her husband maligned by the likes of Ted Kennedy. This is the point in the transcript at which Alito's wife began to cry: <<< GRAHAM: You know why I believe you when you say that you disavow those quotes? Because the way you have lived your life and the way you and your wife are raising your children. Let me tell you this: Guilt by association is going to drive good men and women away from wanting to sit where you're sitting. And we're going to go through a bit of this ourselves as congressmen and senators. People are going to take a fact that we got a campaign donation from somebody who's found out to be a little different than we thought they were — and our political opponent's going to say, "Aha, I got you!" And we're going to say, "Wait a minute. I didn't know that. I didn't take the money for that reason." And you know what? I'm going to believe these senators and congressmen for the most part, because that's the way we do our business. We meet people here every day. We have photos taken with people — and sometimes you wish you didn't have your photo taken. But that doesn't mean that you're a bad person because of that association. [It was at this point, and not before, that Mrs. Alito left the hearing room] Judge Alito, I am sorry that you've had to go through this. I am sorry that your family has had to sit here and listen to this. >>> Not as sorry as he is, I'm sure.media.nationalreview.com humaneventsonline.com washingtonpost.com washingtonpost.com media.nationalreview.com washingtonpost.com