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To: Clappy who wrote (51407)5/5/2006 1:04:07 AM
From: stockman_scott  Respond to of 104155
 
Father and Tiger
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By Eugene Robinson
Columnist
The Washington Post
Friday, May 5, 2006
washingtonpost.com

I found myself unexpectedly moved by the death of Earl Woods, who succumbed to prostate cancer Wednesday at 74 -- unexpectedly, since I never met the man. I knew him only through what the public has been able to see of his relationship with his son, Tiger, arguably the most famous and accomplished athlete in the world. Eventually I realized the reason I feel such a sense of loss is that I'll never get to witness that remarkable relationship again.

Earl Woods did much more than raise a supremely talented golfer. In an age when it's rare to read a sentence with the words "African American" and "father" that doesn't also include "absent" or some other pejorative, Earl and Tiger Woods were the world's most visible, and inspiring, counterexample. "He was the person I looked up to more than anyone," Tiger Woods said following his father's death, and even the world's biggest cynic had to know he meant every word.

To me, the two defining aspects of Tiger Woods's career have been his supernatural ability to make a golf ball do impossible things and his relationship with his father. Two moments stand out: The Sunday afternoon in 1997 when Tiger became the first black man ever to win the Masters and cried like a little boy in the arms of his father, who was there against doctor's orders after almost dying in heart surgery. And the Sunday afternoon in 2005 when Tiger won his fourth Masters and cried again, because Earl Woods, for the first time, had been too sick to come to the course and root him on.

This spring, as it became clear that Earl was in his final days, Tiger told interviewers he hoped to play well so his bedridden father would at least get to see him on television. When his putting failed him in the Masters, he said he was sure his father would be able to diagnose what he was doing wrong. The two men said they talked by telephone virtually every day. Tiger and his mother, Kultida, were at Earl's bedside shortly before he died.

Earl Dennison Woods was born March 5, 1932, in Manhattan, Kan. He played baseball at Kansas State University -- the first African American player in the Big Eight Conference, according to Tiger Woods's Web site. He served two tours of duty as a Green Beret in Vietnam and, after retiring from the Army as a lieutenant colonel, moved to Orange County, Calif., to work for McDonnell Douglas.

He bristled when people tried to compare him with pushy sports parents who set out to gratify their own egos -- or fill their own bank accounts -- by forcing their children to become champions. "My purpose in raising Tiger was not to raise a golfer. I wanted to raise a good person," he told Golf Digest magazine in 2001. By all accounts, that's true. He made Tiger always put homework ahead of golf and gave him every opportunity to give up the sport. But Earl Woods's son was a prodigy, and trying to keep him away from his golf clubs was like trying to keep Mozart away from his piano.

Woods felt he had a duty to cultivate his son's talent. He used psychological techniques to forge Tiger into a tough, steely competitor -- he would jangle his keys, for example, just as Tiger was about to hit a shot. But they stayed out on the course only as long as Tiger wanted to be there. His son became rich enough to buy him a mansion, but until his death Earl Woods still lived in the modest home in Orange County where Tiger grew up.

His health problems were legion -- heart disease, diabetes, prostate cancer that was initially diagnosed and treated in 1998. After the cancer returned in 2004, it became clear that he was entering his final chapter.

Father and son used to do a trick at the golf clinics they put on for kids: Earl would stand in front of Tiger and come progressively closer as Tiger hit golf balls over his head, until finally Earl was within just a few feet -- at which point Tiger would hit a shot that went almost straight up and landed on his father's head. "We don't do that one anymore," Earl told Golf Digest. Was it Tiger who had lost his nerve for the trick, or Earl? "Hell, Tiger's not the one in any danger."

"He was my best friend," Tiger Woods said Wednesday, and I can't think of a more touching epitaph for a father from a son.

eugenerobinson@washpost.com



To: Clappy who wrote (51407)5/5/2006 8:03:23 AM
From: altair19  Read Replies (7) | Respond to of 104155
 
Istzarama and me barmates - here's the first installment:

SEATTLE

I looked out the window and saw Mt. Ranier to the South as we gently banked into a right turn towards Seattle Tacoma Airport. As we lost altitude and began our approach, you could see how green and lush everything was – it was an absolutely beautiful sunny day. As we came closer to the end of the runway, we flew directly over four guys teeing off on a golf course – what a place for a course! The pilot made a perfect landing and I began thinking that I would be seeing people whom I had known for 6-7 years, but had never seen except for Polvy and Katheen – it was a great feeling of anticipation.

When I cleared the plane, I was walking down the long corridor rimmed by gate areas thinking that I hadn’t been to Seattle in almost 10 years. I flipped open my cell and hit “Polvito” on the contact list. I figured I might as well get things going so when someone answered I said “Phuck you, you phucking guy! – is Abtar there?…this is Kerpal!” It might have been funny had Kathleen not answered Dusty’s cell phone. After a short amount of confusion, she figured out it was me – they were heading to the airport and would pick me up….how cool was that. By the time I took the train and made it out to the baggage claim and then the road…there they were! Wharfy and I shook hands as he jumped out of the car and to take my bag, and I gave Rose a kiss…..it really was as if we’d known one another for a long time – everyone looked as they were supposed to look. I jumped in the back seat with Rose and Rat with Kathleen and Polvy in the front. It was such a great feeling finally seeing everyone.

We drove north to Seattle – Polvy took more of a pilot’s approach to directions – noticing that the sun was to our west and the Space Needle was to our north. The view was spectacular – a beautiful lake to the west and snow capped mountains beyond them. After some instructions from Kath, Polvy made a few turns to head us towards our floating house. Down this San Francisco grade steep hill we went and banged a left on Fairview. First, we needed supplies, so we went to Pete’s Grocery Store – Pete’s is unique….tiny neighborhood store…three rows of beer, wine and booze, and two rows of food. We all loaded up what needed – many different wines, beers, chips, dips,cheeses and oh, some breakfast stuff. At that point we looked like a bunch of migrating Oakies with baggage and food all piled into the wagon along with ourselves.

Back down Fairview to our floating house. The first thing we see in the lot is a fallen pine with a note on it. Evidently, a beaver had cut it down and the note said “please leave the tree, the beaver may return to retrieve other parts of it for his home” well……in the words of Dana Carvey…”isn’t that special”. We all made a few choice comments on a note we might leave, but decided against it.

The floating houses are arrayed on each side of a narrow dock –our house was at the end of the dock. Each house was very different from the others with all kinds of whimsical designs. Our house had a high ceilinged living room with a deck and floating dock out a sliding glass door. There was a bedroom and bath off the kitchen. Upstairs, there were 2 ½ bedroom. We looked across a channel to other floating houses and also out to the lake. Boats would slowly motor by, checking out all the houses and then return back to the lake – everyone, like in a lot of boating communities/harbors, always waived and smiled.
After we got settled, we broke out the beer, chips and dips and began talking about everything under the sun – there was a wonderful rich feeling of being among really good friends. We talked a lot about people that weren’t there that we knew on the board – clappy, S2, Scouser, Sioux, jpg, Croc, cresign, t-sider dealer, she-x and others I have forgotten - the interesting thing was we all began to trace the routes of how we came here – Yalhoo, CPX, Voltaire’s Porch. It was an important conversation for the simply reason we knew that this event was bigger than all of us and involved a lot of people that we know and care about – we just happened to be here in person while our absent friends were here in spirit. Speaking of spirits, we all marveled at Wharfy’s Pinot Noir that he wrapped in tin foil and placed in his bag (he lucked out that it wasn’t a carry on) – it had the outline of an RPG…if that didn’t top all, he also had a jelly jar full of his home grown personal blend that he smoke in his corn cob pipe along with the tobacco.

Out on the deck in the brilliantly clear sunshine, we got a call from Mannie – he was on his way over and was going to join us for a few beers and dinner. Nothing nicer that sitting on the floating dock watch the sailboats and rowing shells on the lake. Before we knew it, Mannie was here!. Again, it felt like we had known him for years. Somehow he had eluded Yen, who was busy working out the spreadsheet for the big Sunday night gig. It had taken a ton of work on both their parts to get ready for the event. Mannie speaks very modestly about the success of CTH – almost as if he’s surprised by the success – when speaking of CTH, we never heard him use the word “I” – he’s the real deal. We headed out for dinner at a restaurant that was close-by (can’t remember the name). We sat at a large round table overlooking the lake and the setting sun. Laughter, stories, more laughter filled the restaurant – again, we felt the presence of all our barmates at the table. After the dinner, Mannie, after a quick tour of his Ducati for the boys (we were all salivating over it) – Rose thought it was “cute”…Mannie zipped up his leather jacket, strapped on the helmet and drove into the night.

At that point, we went back into the floating house. Rhoze, true to her word had brought Polvy a pony, and me some caviar, mayo, peanut butter and wonderbread (long story). Wharfy has brought his special Pinot Noir. I had brought her a CD of a jazz service our choral group did. These guys are true to their word and show up! We then started planning the next day’s events – the neat thing was that nobody imposed there will on anyone else – we decided on three venues – the Open Market, the Space Needle, and the Rock and Rock Museum.

My east coast body clock informed me that I was approaching toast, so I bailed out and went to bed.

Next episode – The Market, The Space Needle, The Rock and Roll Museum and the CTH Celebration!!!!



To: Clappy who wrote (51407)5/5/2006 10:09:35 AM
From: Wharf Rat  Respond to of 104155
 
I'll have one, too. Or maybe two, once.
Thanks.

L'chaim