To: Maurice Winn who wrote (212340 ) 1/10/2007 3:04:03 PM From: Ilaine Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 281500 One of the jobs I had when working my way through college 30 plus years ago was as a receptionist in an abortion clinic. This was right after abortion became legal in the US. At the time I was an anthropology major, and the clinic director was interested in the psychology of abortion, so we developed a questionnaire for patients to fill out. I didn't do anything with the research, as working at the clinic wasn't something I stuck with, but I've often thought about some of the things I observed. One observation which may be relevant to this debate is that, it seemed to me at the time, women don't get abortions because of rape or incest, not really. Usually the father was someone they loved. The unmarried ones get abortions because the father doesn't want to marry them. The married ones get abortions because they don't think they can take care of more children than they already have. Birth control is actually quite effective if you use it conscientiously. Women who don't want children use birth control, or get themselves to an abortion clinic quite early on, when their menstrual period is only a couple of weeks overdue. It's the ambivalent ones that cause all the angst. They want the baby, they don't want the baby, back and forth, until they're very far along and the baby is actually a baby, not an embryo. Just my observation, naturally a broad generalization, individuals will always vary. But, as backup support, back in the old days, an awful lot of babies were conceived out of wedlock, and the parents got married in a hurry, which suggests that men today are cads, and women are fools to let them get away with it. Except, of course, for the very dedicated spinsters whose eye is on another prize than babies and motherhood. For them, this debate is incomprehensible. Abortion is no more emotional to them than getting an oil change for the automobile.