SI
SI
discoversearch

We've detected that you're using an ad content blocking browser plug-in or feature. Ads provide a critical source of revenue to the continued operation of Silicon Investor.  We ask that you disable ad blocking while on Silicon Investor in the best interests of our community.  If you are not using an ad blocker but are still receiving this message, make sure your browser's tracking protection is set to the 'standard' level.
Politics : Foreign Affairs Discussion Group -- Ignore unavailable to you. Want to Upgrade?


To: Maurice Winn who wrote (212479)1/11/2007 7:13:17 AM
From: Ilaine  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 281500
 
You're right, as usual, Mq, about oxytocin being released during childbirth because the cervix is stimulated. It's also released during nursing and contributed to milk letdown.

Perhaps other hormones, too. We shouldn't forget for a minute that we don't know all there is to know about medicine (or anything else).

As for whether that contributes to lack of bonding, sorry, not at all a new theory.
dailymail.co.uk

I did find, and print out, a while back, the name of the hormone released during orgasm that makes one feel sleepy and fall asleep, but it's in one of my paper stacks and right now there are too many paper stacks to put my finger on it. At any rate, that particular hormone isn't oxytocin, but oxytocin is one of the many hormones are involved in sexual relations and reproduction.

But what I've read is that women experience a release of oxytocin during intercourse that makes them bond with the man but not necessarily vice versa, which may explain caddishness.

Not being male, I don't know what makes some men want to cuddle after sex, and some men want to jump up and get dressed and go home. My guess is that it's multifactorial, some men are like that all the time, and some men are like that when they've just had sex with the wrong woman.

Maybe there's a Nobel Prize in explaining that.



To: Maurice Winn who wrote (212479)1/11/2007 7:24:24 AM
From: Ilaine  Respond to of 281500
 
Speaking of caddishness, in colonial America, if a female indentured servant got pregnant, by law the owner would have the right to more years being tacked onto the labor contract, and in some cases a right to the labor of the child, as well.

Which led to some unscrupulous masters knocking up the servant in order to have more years of work out of her, as well as a bit of fun.