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To: Rainy_Day_Woman who wrote (139259)4/3/2007 4:34:13 PM
From: Augustus Gloop  Respond to of 225578
 
It is a beautiful Capitol building and Madison is really a nice city/town. That said, I'm ready to move. I'm concerned that if I don't that I wont move on in the way I need to. I can do business in any corner of the world and I'll always make respectable money. My ex-wife, my son and my family know this is a possibility and all parties are ok with it. It's been in the back of my mind since last May so its not like a snap decision. I've thought long and hard about this and I'm ready. Now the question is where. I like water and would love to live on a lake. I like the change of seasons but year around warmth has a certain appeal as well. I don't need to live like Donald Trump - happiness and contentment are where its at for me. When the day comes that I meet someone I don't want to marry into the Brady Bunch. My chances of having another child with someone probably are gone but I can live with that. I've been out on some dates and I find myself evaluating people in a far different way than I did at a younger age and I also find myself thinking about my son. If someone wants me to be a good guide for their child (and possibly a father to a degree) I know I can handle it. But the street goes both ways and if it doesn't then I wont even consider it. I went on this date with a beautiful gal. In my book she was a 10 in appearance - very attractive. She was a super nice gal as well. I would have dated her again because she really had some great qualities. Then I found out she has 4 kids. It may not be fair for that to be an issue for me but I'm just not up to the task. If I know that about myself it would be less fair for me to continue seeing her when I know I can't pull it off. I'm prepared to handle 1 or 2 kids aside from my son but 4 is a deal killer for me. I have to laugh at myself though. These are 35-40 year old gals and if I worked the situation I could probably have a fling with several of them. But its been like I'm saving myself for marriage LOL!! I'm waiting to be swept off my feet - it really is kind of funny to hear a guy talk like that and probably more so with someone who has been as cocky and egotistical as myself. But times have changed, I'm older and I just can't bring myself to do things like I did in college. The other issue is I want someone to love me for me. I'm so good in bed that if I slept with any of them they'd want to marry me ROFLMAO!! So, since I'm unsurpassed in the sack I have to make sure someone loves me for me and not just because I'm great in the sack LOL.

Of course you have to understand me...my post was getting far too thoughtful so I needed to add the last part just so that people wouldn't think I'm too nice a guy :-)