To: TobagoJack who wrote (26789 ) 12/26/2007 2:13:12 PM From: Maurice Winn Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 218167 TJ, apparently infants raised together instinctively do not mate. Which is not surprising because to do so would cause great risk of interbreeding genetic problems. In primates, the females hop the fence and join some other tribe. The males try to defend their patch. It causes no end of fun and games for people [men] trying to retain their Sacred Most Noble of All Master Race and other people [women] who like nothing better than to mess with the programme. Romeo and Juliet, the tragic young couple killed on the bridge in Sarajevo, Fiddler on the Roof [who had his daughters messing up "tradition"] are well-known examples. Therefore I think neither Ruben nor Paul will be a son in law. <paul's mom asked what we would think should paul and erita get together in the future > They will use their skills learned in dealing with Erita [who no doubt runs a rough deal against them] in capturing the hearts of women who hop the fence later [if they are fortunate - there is a LOT of competition]. On predicting the infant future, there was a cartoon book my parents had 5 decades ago, called "The Rake's Progress", which was a series of stories about young infants who were doing something, with their doting parents watching and thinking what marvelous things they would do when adults. The few panels then followed them through life, which ended ignominiously with the initial activity still going on, but in a self-destructive venal, arrogant and funny way. I'll now ask Google if it has it! Good grief, Google is amazing [even though I accidentally used Yahoo! search which provided this link] Not only was the book a derivative, but Yahoo! has details on the real source, which explains the book well: en.wikipedia.org Lessons for our times: culturevulture.net I can't find pictures from the book [Google needs to get back on the job]. Virtuous Victorian Values are ignored at our peril. Anyway, your predictions/musings were exactly what the book was about - <erita may end up being ... i dunno, perhaps a boss of enterprise, or an organizer of society, or a fashion house type >. Of course the male ego is especially prone to the false path, delusions of grandeur and the consequent downfall. Mqurice