To: Kevin Rose who wrote (146492 ) 11/8/2008 2:32:42 PM From: Brumar89 Respond to of 173976 it is a bond between consenting adults Of course, both parties consented when they were married and both made a lifetime pact. So why if its a right, can it be terminated w/o the approval of both? Such would violate the right of one of the parties.incest is outlawed for reasons of health (mental, as most incest relations are abusive). Poly marriages should be allowed, imo, though we need to be careful that they are not abusive like some of the recent polygamist cases. Most polygamous marriages are abusive too. Look at the underage girls being married off in the polygamous cult in the news recently. Women usually aren't even allowed to drive cars in such cults ... just like in SA where polygamy is practiced too. Getting back to incest ... would you ban same-sex incestuous marriages? Or incestuous marraiges where one or both parties are beyond child-bearing years? No health problem there is there? And why shouldn't such marriages be made and recognized? You say next marriage is all about the benefits to be gotten,Marriage incurs a legal benefit that is currently unavailable to homosexuals in committed relationships. That's the whole point of the controversy. So much for gay marraige being so people could be happy and fulfilled as couples. Many of the benefits can be handled via alternate arrangements. So, I guess you're for the rights of bigots to keep people of color out of their establishments. The case you cited was not a case of a doctor being forced to perform a procedure that he or she didn't want to; it was that the doctor cannot discriminate against performing it on someone based on their race, creed, or sexual orientation. It would be akin to a doctor refusing to perform surgery on a homosexual patient - such discrimination is against the law Civil rights laws cover discrimination over race, color, national origin. Sexual orientation isn't covered as far as I know. The case you cited was not a case of a doctor being forced to perform a procedure that he or she didn't want to; it was that the doctor cannot discriminate In the case I cited, no procedure was withheld. Just a matter of who did it. Do you think all surgeons s/b required to perform abortions, sex change operations on demand? Doesn't that defacto amount to religious people not being allowed to be doctors unless they agree to violate their religious beliefs? Maybe observant Jews and Muslims shouldn't be allowed to not practice medicine (or for that matter do any business) unless they agree to perform on their sabbaths and holy days? After all, if a patient can say 'I want THIS doctor and no other to do this procedure', why couldn't they say 'I want the procedure or service on THIS day and no other'?