To: Sundar Rajan who wrote (27534 ) 10/31/1997 12:56:00 AM From: Brad Hill Respond to of 58727
Sundar--I sympathize with your predicament, and also appreciate the tough advice Randy has given you. Developing good exiting technique is definitely the hardest part of trading, whether stock or options, but the difficulty is drastically compounded with options because of the deadlines and constant erosion of value. Learning how to exit in a method that works for YOU is a curriculum that you pay for with losses. I don't think this it's easy or cheap for anybody, except perhaps natural trading geniuses. As Randy says, having a plan is vital, and sticking to it despite your emotions. I tell myself out loud sometimes what I'm attempting with a trade so I don't forget in the fire of greed and fear. Is it a flip attempt? Am I intending to hold for the day with a late-session exit? Am I willing to lose two points, or three, or five? How far out on a limb will I go, how deep into expiration will I hold? Am I hedging, and willing to lose it all against opposing positions? It really takes discipline to stick to your plan. I've been known to walk away from the computer so I can't trade away a position prematurely if I don't think I have the courage to watch the market. During my time as a trader, not sticking to my plan has cost me more money and grief than any other single factor. Almost any plan, if followed consistently, is better than no plan. Compared to Tom's advice, my two cents is worth about one cent, but it does seem clear to me that one strategy for taking positions several months out in time is to hedge against near-term disaster. You've run into near-term disaster. I have been amazed at the last-second recovery of positions that are much closer to expiration than yours. Please understand, I'm not recommending any course of action. If you didn't have an exit plan before, it's not too late to formulate one now. Tom may have more explicit suggestions. He has helped me very much with my crises in the past. Good luck, and hang in there! Make sure you can trade for another day, that's what I always tell myself. -- Brad