To: cnyndwllr who wrote (140603 ) 7/10/2010 2:20:43 PM From: Katelew Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 541736 If you don't believe me then step into the kitchen of the last busy restaurant you ate in and look for the person cleaning leftover food off the plates you left on the table, reaching into the steaming hot dishwasher to pull out the clean plates and stack them, loading the dirty ones and sweating like crazy, red faced, chapped hands, moving hard to keep up with the never ending buckets of dirty dishes. Ask how much he or she makes. In busy places that person will be the hardest working and lowest paid in the business. Now why is that? Why do liberals have such a penchant for trying to shame people into their point of view? I don't want to be mean, but it's just so unbecoming for someone with a keen intellect like yours. And it's pointless, don't you think? Everyone knows that cleaning dirty plates and picking produce is grunge work. The main thing I see when stepping into the kitchen of a busy restaurant are mostly young people, many of whom are high school or college students. They aren't going to stay in this kind of work for long....it's a stepping stone. The hotter the steam and the nastier the work, the more likely they are to knuckle down in school. The owners of restaurants will sure jump in and do that work when necessary. In fact, lots of franchisees started out in the kitchen. One thing I think many liberals should get fixed in their heads is that the unemployed, the welfare recipient, and even some of the disabled are generally a group of people in transition. Things are different now, but typically the average length of time on welfare has been six months. Bleating about them as though they are a fixed group, trapped forever in the grind of poverty flies in the face of the facts. The typical recipient is younger, hasn't built up an asset base yet, and something unexpected happens to them. Job loss, divorce, injury, etc. This country has a pretty good safety net of programs that can bring multiple forms of assistance to them. This is a very good thing and allows them to get their life back in order and transition off welfare. People on the right should also keep in mind that welfare assistance is typically a temporary situation and quit railing about the 'welfare queens' as though this group is the norm. Having said this, I have to agree more with Q. I've done quite of bit of volunteering through the years. Both in my church which operates an extensive system of welfare assistance and also quite a bit in my community. When I encounter people past 40 or so who are still struggling to hold down jobs, whose family life is dysfunctional, and who can't budget even when they have a job there are things going on that can't be blamed on society. Sometimes there is a missed or untreated underlying illness, which was my focus in my community volunteering. I was trying to find out if this was the case and steer them toward the appropriate assistance programs. Personally speaking, I wouldn't be surprised if one-third of those who are on welfare and/or struggling to stay afloat don't have some kind of unresolved health issues. Sadly, most of the time there are specific reasons for their plight....drugs, alcohol, lack of ambition, chip on the shoulder, and way too much ignorance to function in our more complex society. There's not much really constructive help that can be given. IMO, they have to hit some kind of bottom.