To: TimF who wrote (750 ) 10/21/2010 10:48:41 AM From: one_less Respond to of 777 An older person is more likely to develop a cynical attitude toward societal endeavors and therefore be less inclined to encourage, engage, or even care about the circumstances of others. That would make them more amoral than immoral with regards to the people and circumstances within their sphere of influence. If a person excusing self as a cynic, however, does see the benefits of caring activities but withheld support in lieu of their devotion to cynicism, they would be guilty of the immoral conduct of negligence."Generally I'm optimistic enough to assume that many people do improve themselves over their lives. But I'm pessimistic or cynical enough to think some people really do delude themselves in the way the article mentioned." The article does make a good point about the manner in which most of us at least attempt to delude ourselves about the past. We do that to maintain a sense of heroism within our own story. It also allows us to move on and deal with the present on positive terms. I'm not convinced by their conclusion.Recognizing this tendency in oneself, psychologists say, can both reduce the risk of lapsing into middle-aged sanctimony and increase moral vigilance for when it matters most: the present. Growth is the normal condition of human existence. When people view themselves as improving in some manner they are generally more happy and healthy for it. At different stages of life we have the opportunity to grow in different ways, most people probably do find ways to continue growing even those in very advanced age categories. It definitely helps to be able to put the past behind you. People inhibit their own growth when they get stuck or feel trapped in a certain narrow role or identity, whether that is an idealistic cause of youth, a tough guy gangsta role, or a position of wealth and status in adulthood where false judgements and delusionary conduct are garnered to protect convention. I've often seen people in middle or old age still trying to champion the issues and life style they embraced as an eighteen year old.