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To: Suma who wrote (165715)7/11/2011 10:42:23 AM
From: Rarebird  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 541107
 
<<She said think on how much of religious thought is tied up in sexual contexts. >>

Very true. I once dated a woman (about 37 years ago) before I married, who was a straight A Ivy League Student who use to ask me all the time to tie her up and whip her. She was an extremely religious Irish woman who was a lot of fun to be around and had a very active critical mind. Honestly, I ignored her requests initially for the first couple of months as I honestly wasn't comfortable doing that to her. However, she kept on asking me to do this each week as our relation progressed. Finally, I called up a shrink on the radio one evening and told her that my girlfriend was constantly asking me to tie her up and whip her. The shrink asked me "if I was a gentleman". I said "yes". The shrink then said, "what's the problem then? Why haven't you done what she has requested"? I then said "I prefer to have her arms wrapped around me". "Wait a minute", the shrink said, "I thought you told me you were a gentleman". I said "I'm afraid to do that. Isn't that sick"? The shrink then said, "did your girlfriend tell you why she wants to be tied up and whipped"? I said, "yes", she says "she has a deeper orgasm". The shrink then said, "she is only telling you part of the truth. I will tell you the full truth. Your girlfriend has a deeper orgasm when she is tied up because by being tied up she is (in her own mind) not consenting to the sexual act. Moreover, by whipping her, you are giving her the same treatment that Christ received". I said "wow, I understand now. "Clearly", the shrink said, "your girlfriend was raised that sex was bad. If I was you, I would not tell her about our conversation and just do what she wants". I then said, "what if I get addicted to this mode of sex and can't go back to my old ways". The shrink said, "don't worry, that will likely not happen to you. Now just go out and be a gentleman to this woman". Yes, I did it countless number of times, the exact way she wanted me too. The relationship ended because I refused to meet the girl's mother and told the girl I could never marry her and raise my kids Christian.

I hope this story doesn't offend anyone. But there is a lot of truth to Suma's comment.