To: tejek who wrote (100685 ) 9/3/2011 9:13:26 PM From: zeta1961 Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 149317 What I am saying is that I don't know if, in fact, whites have a fear of blacks and Latinos. I know I don't but I don't know if its true of others. I It's my experience that more are afraid of latinos/blacks and asians to a lesser degree, than are not...The media is a major player in feeding the stereotypes and fears, as you well know. That's what makes FOX news and Limbaugh, et. al. especially repulsive. Myriad reasons for those that are afraid, imo. From what region one comes, the kind of family and community they were raised in, and the opinions and beliefs in these systems... highly influential......but, at the same time, there's not a family(with more than 2 kids where there's more homogeneity) I've met where all the children grow up embracing what they were exposed to, no matter the environment or subject matter. As you've mentioned in the past, in these polarized times, so often siblings and other relatives are so divided in their political and social views that they can barely talk to each other, if at all..... As much as it's depressing, I also find it absolutely fascinating....how did people exposed to the same environment, family and educational system develop into adults with such varying views? Does it mean some were born wired to be less afraid? Some more afraid? Less judgemental or more judgemental? In other words, how much does innate wiring impact ones proclivity re: how fearful and judgemental one is and very importantly, how he or she acts upon these thought/emotional states.........Mystery.... Because what people do about this fear is also varied.....for some, like our tea partiers, they go about doing what we see they are doing. For others, the fear is there, they keep their distance while retaining an open mind to experience first hand and get it that each color and culture of humans(!) has its, altruists, geniuses and miscreants... A few thoughts, although there is so much more to explore.I think I may bring it up when I get together next time with some of my male friends. One guy is of mixed race and another is going out with an Asian woman........so we will see what they say. I'd be interested in hearing what they have to say.... I almost wish he wouldn't run for a second term..........that its not worth the cost to his health. I really don't know if we will get through this one. I've only had fleeting thoughts about this scenario...