To: Maurice Winn who wrote (85509 ) 1/2/2012 6:24:46 PM From: Ilaine 1 Recommendation Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 220282 It may have just been a matter of nomenclature. "Negro" is a word that cannot be used on polite society in America anymore. It has become an insult. There are other words which are not related in any way that cannot be used, either, e.g., niggardly, which means stingy or miserly and is related to niggling, which you probably should not use either. It's just one of those things that you can't know unless you are in the culture, like a thumb's up means "up yours" in some cultures, or the OK sign means you are calling the other person a catamite. How many cultural barriers do we need to cross to communicate? They're everywhere and we don't always see them. I used to collect racist memorabilia (one company I worked for printed the KKK newspaper) (very weird, by the way, but that's another story for another time) (in those days you could make a living selling newsprint with ads in it) (lots of other newspapers, too, society, real estate, gay, hetero swingers, black power, antiques, boats, dog fanciers, art, whoever had money and needed a printing press) but stopped (the collecting, not the printing) because I feared that someday the grandkids would find them and think Grandma was a racist who approved of them, rather than found them aborrent. Actually thirty years later I think they will just think it was all rather quaint. At any rate I am familiar with Words You Cannot Say, and Things You Cannot Think, Much Less Express. Actually I do wish people would keep the discourse civil, first step being asking someone whether he meant what you think he meant, before you go off on him.