To: MJ who wrote (463184 ) 1/3/2012 10:06:41 PM From: KLP 3 Recommendations Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 794540 One last thing....for centuries until the 1930-1940's people buried their dead on their own most often. They were laid in their homemade coffins, and friends and family came to pay their respects, as you said. Sometimes, people lived in the country, and didn't have other than friends and family to dig graves. If it was winter, especially in the northern climes, the graves couldn't be made for weeks, until the ground thawed. Coffins were covered and kept in a safe place outside until they could be actually buried. And yes, children of our ancestors understood that this was part of family life. Did our early settlers bury their babies who died in childbirth at once------the whole family lived through the births and the deaths? I've wondered if our throwaway society is so upset about this because they just don't want to deal with reality. On your thoughts below....I TOTALLY agree....but add to your list Silky Pony John Edwards, at one time DEM Candidate for VP of the US...! The Dems AND their owned media kept hush-hush the fact that not only he was having an affair while his wife was dying of cancer...But his mistress was expecting his baby (which they now have).... This still is shocking to me....Not the facts as laid out (no pun) BUT the fact that it was covered up for such a long time.... And the very same media has the absolute gall to comment on Newt's life and mistakes he has made....He sure ISN'T John Phoney Baloney Edwards....Okay, let's agree to find this bringing the baby home to be unusual--------How, does this reflect negatively upon Rick Santorum's capability to be President of the USA? It does not. This is insignificant in comparison to the allegations that have surrounded other candidates for public office-------i.e. Edwards, Spitzer, Bill Clinton, Ted Kennedy and Mary Jo-----Ted was such a coward he didn't call for help. Rick Santorum is a saint in comparison.