To: JohnM who wrote (193064 ) 7/3/2012 11:52:52 AM From: koan Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 541933 Maybe-g: articles.cnn.com In Sweden, a generation of kids who've never been spanked CORPORAL PUNISHMENT November 09, 2011|By Jamie Gumbrecht, CNN Hillary Adams: My father is in denial Ian Swanson was 5 when his family moved from the United States to Umeå, a small university town in northern Sweden. It was the place where he made his first friends, where he learned to read and where, like any kid, he was "into absolutely everything." He occasionally got a spanking from mom, or a swat on the rear and a stern look from his dad. But he remembers one day when his kindergarten teacher, school principal and a social worker came to their home. They worried Ian wasn't fitting in; they wanted to talk about the "abuse." Advertisement [iframe height=250 src="/ad-cnn.php?f=medium_rectangle" frameBorder=0 width=300 scrolling=no][/iframe] Ads by Google Swanson remembers translating for his parents, who were still learning the language, too: "'You have to understand, things are different here.'" In 1979, a few years before the Swanson family arrived, Sweden became the first country to ban physical punishment of children. Since then, 30 more countries have passed bans on corporal punishment at home, and even more have banned it in schools, according to the Global Initiative to End All Corporal Punishment of Children. Just last month, Togo confirmed to the United Nations Committee on the Rights of the Child that parts of its children's code are meant to ban physical punishment. See a country-by-country breakdown of corporal punishment bans No countries in North America ban physical punishment by parents, but there's a perennial debate about the line between discipline and abuse, and who's allowed to administer it. It flared again last week after millions watched a seven-minute YouTube video from 2004 that showed a Texas judge cursing at his teen daughter and beating her with a belt. While there are laws against child abuse, it's legal in all 50 states for parents to hit their children, and for schools in 19 states to physically punish kids. About 80% of American parents said they've hit their young children, and about 100,000 kids are paddled in U.S. schools every year, researchers said. Effects of physical discipline linger for adults Kids are still hit with hands, belts, switches and paddles, said Elizabeth Gershoff , an associate professor of human development and family sciences at University of Texas, despite research that shows it doesn't model or teach behavior parents are looking for, that it damages trust between parent and children and that it can lead to increased aggression. Ads by Google We recommend [iframe style="WIDTH: 0px; DISPLAY: none; HEIGHT: 0px" id=odbPingIframeId src="about:blank" frameBorder=0 name=odbFrame][/iframe] You might like: Georgia woman with flesh-eating infection leaves hospital CNN Health 'The Sandusky 8' describe seduction, molestation and betrayal CNN.com Mississippi's only abortion clinic to stay open under restraining order CNN US Can spanking cause mental illness? CNN Health 'Great day' as evacuations lifted; fight continues against deadly Colorado fire CNN.com More extreme heat, continued headaches for Central, Eastern U.S. CNN.com From around the web Selected for you by our sponsor: Nikon announces latest entry-level DSLR, the 24.2-megapixel Nikon D3200 Digital Camera Info We Can't Help But Stare⦠Sofia Vergara Pictures StyleBistro How Much Income Will you need in Retirement? Day One Stories Punishment For Fatal Accident: Driver Will Be Executed AOL Autos Rockstar Gives Online Cheaters A Taste Of Their Own Medicine Techli The "Open Carry" Gun Owner's Starter Kit BusinessWeek [what's this] Ads by Google