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To: Carol who wrote (311)12/28/1997 11:21:00 PM
From: Carol  Respond to of 650
 
Metaphysics--everywhere you turn nowadays, you hear the word "metaphysics." It is given as an explanation for psychic phenomena, for a religion, for anything out of this world.

Actually, metaphysics is a singularly simple philosophy for living joyously. It teaches that humans are much more in control of their life situations than thought. Metaphysics gives the keys to solving dilemmas, to resolving desires, to getting in touch with disciplines.

Society tells people to react to life, dramas, and "soaps," encourage emotional reaction. When something goes wrong, it has got to be someone else's fault, it is God's will or "The devil made me do it." Never is there the acknowledgment that there are situations that derive from your decisions, either to do or not to do, either to say or not to say.

Metaphysics, though, is based on the premise that you need to respond to life, with a philosophy that comes from the heart of all religions, a philosophy that encourages self-responsibility.

It accepts that each life is created by the individual, the events often caused by your actions, your thinking, your wants. Can you acknowledge responsibility for being the cause of your own effect?



To: Carol who wrote (311)12/28/1997 11:28:00 PM
From: Carol  Respond to of 650
 
This concept can be difficult to accept at first. Does that mean that Aunt Matilda, the one who drives you crazy is your fault? No, but you have the choice of reacting or responding to her.

REACT! RESPONSE! Just say those two words out loud. REACT--ACT--ACTION WITHOUT THOUGHT. You are dancing to someone else's tune. RESPOND--PONDER--ACTION WITH THOUGHT. You are in control of yourself, of your emotions and mostly, of your own life.

But make no mistake about it; it is difficult to start. Old habit patterns pop up, emotions rush forth and your mouth flies open. Can you learn to wait one moment--just one moment--allowing the rush of emotion to pass? Can you possibly start the pattern of responding today when Aunt Matilda begins her only-too-familiar tirade? Each time you respond, you are building a good habit pattern--good for you!

Do you concern yourself with what others will think of you? It takes courage to live by your own set of values. You are not alone in hesitating to step out of the "React Syndrome" into the "Respond Lifestyle" yet, all visionaries, everyone who has changed their life, and yes, even our planet for the better, do just that--live life with a vision in their own unique way!



To: Carol who wrote (311)12/28/1997 11:33:00 PM
From: Carol  Respond to of 650
 
The philosophy that metaphysics is based on is simple, that bears repeating because simple ideas seem to escape most, especially when your emotions are involved.

Take the word "TRUST." It is a word that is bandied about ever so lightly! Our coins are emblazoned "In God We Trust." Authority figures say, "Trust me, this is for your own good." And, the people you love--they better be trustworthy.

People promise, people pledge, but they don't always keep their promises--they simply change their minds. But, where does that leave you? Still trusting others? Perhaps not, but you can still appreciate the quality time they do spend with you.

Trust is not between people. Trust is a singular trait. Do you know how you will act when others prove untrustworthy?

Will you thrash about, pointing an accusing finger, or will you acknowledge their right to choice even after they promised and pledged their love to you.

That is when you take a deep breath and go on trusting. Whom do you trust now? When it is yourself, you will know joy in your life, joy that lasts through the journey of life.

Changing your way of life means accepting life as it happens. Acceptance is the first step of change. Do not interpret this word's meaning as "giving up," not at all. It is that first magical step.

By your acceptance of a situation that is frustrating, the energy between the parties involved automatically changes, even if you are the only one who begins to accept what is happening.

It allows you to use the same energy, but in a positive way. You are a divine being with full power at all times to transform your life. You use your power best by first accepting what is, in yourself as well as in others; second, setting aside a quiet time to get in touch with the inner, the wise YOU; and thirdly, taking steps sometimes the tiniest of baby steps, to your new goal.

The word, metaphysics, can be a powerful tool, giving you a philosophy which allows your life to be experienced to the fullest, with the understanding and acceptance of others, and more importantly, with the understanding, acceptance and the acknowledgment of your own specialness.