To: Carol who wrote (311 ) 12/28/1997 11:33:00 PM From: Carol Respond to of 650
The philosophy that metaphysics is based on is simple, that bears repeating because simple ideas seem to escape most, especially when your emotions are involved. Take the word "TRUST." It is a word that is bandied about ever so lightly! Our coins are emblazoned "In God We Trust." Authority figures say, "Trust me, this is for your own good." And, the people you love--they better be trustworthy. People promise, people pledge, but they don't always keep their promises--they simply change their minds. But, where does that leave you? Still trusting others? Perhaps not, but you can still appreciate the quality time they do spend with you. Trust is not between people. Trust is a singular trait. Do you know how you will act when others prove untrustworthy? Will you thrash about, pointing an accusing finger, or will you acknowledge their right to choice even after they promised and pledged their love to you. That is when you take a deep breath and go on trusting. Whom do you trust now? When it is yourself, you will know joy in your life, joy that lasts through the journey of life. Changing your way of life means accepting life as it happens. Acceptance is the first step of change. Do not interpret this word's meaning as "giving up," not at all. It is that first magical step. By your acceptance of a situation that is frustrating, the energy between the parties involved automatically changes, even if you are the only one who begins to accept what is happening. It allows you to use the same energy, but in a positive way. You are a divine being with full power at all times to transform your life. You use your power best by first accepting what is, in yourself as well as in others; second, setting aside a quiet time to get in touch with the inner, the wise YOU; and thirdly, taking steps sometimes the tiniest of baby steps, to your new goal. The word, metaphysics, can be a powerful tool, giving you a philosophy which allows your life to be experienced to the fullest, with the understanding and acceptance of others, and more importantly, with the understanding, acceptance and the acknowledgment of your own specialness.