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To: MSB who wrote (15135)1/8/1998 7:12:00 PM
From: Grainne  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 108807
 
Well, Mike, maybe if S.J. really gets sick of the computer, she will try to get rid of it the way I tried to disable the tv. Once I totally dismantled all the stuff that makes our tv work--the antenna, boxes, cables, cords, remotes and speakers--and hid them all over the garage. I could not move the tv because it is too big, though, and there would have been no place to hide it, either, although I suspect it would have rolled quite nicely down the steep hill behind our house into the ravine with the creek that runs along the bottom, if I had been able to figure out how to get it out the door. Don't try this at home, ladies!!! It makes guys act like angry grizzly bears!!!

From what you've said, S.J. had other interests before you married, like painting, but has given them up. Any idea why? I know that when people are really insecure about relationship, they tend to cling really tight. How long have you been together, anyway? Perhaps if you spent several months TOTALLY with her, she would feel better and be able to relax and balance having a life as a couple, and as separate individuals as well. You know, reverse psychology--spend so much time with her that she wishes you went on the computer once in awhile, to give her some breathing room.