SI
SI
discoversearch

We've detected that you're using an ad content blocking browser plug-in or feature. Ads provide a critical source of revenue to the continued operation of Silicon Investor.  We ask that you disable ad blocking while on Silicon Investor in the best interests of our community.  If you are not using an ad blocker but are still receiving this message, make sure your browser's tracking protection is set to the 'standard' level.
Pastimes : Let's Talk About Our Feelings!!! -- Ignore unavailable to you. Want to Upgrade?


To: epicure who wrote (15990)1/20/1998 4:38:00 PM
From: j g cordes  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 108807
 
"Some people have that in your face, I want to get to the root of your
probelms sort of empathy that can feel a tad invasive. Sort of a collonoscopy of the feely kind."

Well said.. but that usually happens in relationships that have gone acidic, where goading is the motive to empathize at all.



To: epicure who wrote (15990)1/20/1998 5:09:00 PM
From: Janice Shell  Respond to of 108807
 
Sort of a collonoscopy of the feely kind.

Good point. Taht's awful, too. The people who encourage you to "open up" and afterwards you think "My God!" and realize you've been used. So taht kind of empathy is indeed pretty much the same as self-absorbed "vulnerability".