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Pastimes : Let's Talk About Our Feelings!!! -- Ignore unavailable to you. Want to Upgrade?


To: j g cordes who wrote (16161)1/22/1998 12:43:00 AM
From: Grainne  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 108807
 
<The point being, one's suddenly seeing a surprize positive side of a person who in
you're mind was almost typecast... in one mode its showing an unexpected
vulnerability, in another an unexpected sensitivity or depth of interest or
compassion. That process of revelation about a person, not the act or interest itself,
can be exciting and refreshing to experience in knowing someone.>

Yes, I would agree with that, Jim. And now when you add that you are already sexually attracted to someone who has just revealed more of himself, you can understand how very much more sexy that would be. Also, the intimacy of the sex act itself is heightened by how close you feel to the person, and most women feel closer when men share their deepest feelings.

Of course, intimacy on that level can also be almost terrifying!!!