SI
SI
discoversearch

We've detected that you're using an ad content blocking browser plug-in or feature. Ads provide a critical source of revenue to the continued operation of Silicon Investor.  We ask that you disable ad blocking while on Silicon Investor in the best interests of our community.  If you are not using an ad blocker but are still receiving this message, make sure your browser's tracking protection is set to the 'standard' level.
Politics : View from the Center and Left -- Ignore unavailable to you. Want to Upgrade?


To: Jamie153 who wrote (421090)10/18/2019 11:37:17 AM
From: epicure  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 541219
 
No. I was being kind and letting that go. Have you ever raised a child?

They wear diapers all the way up to 3 years (or older if they are stubborn)- depending on when they train. Lots of toddlers (who are children) wear diapers- but I was going to let that go, figuring you were just ignorant. But you wanted to follow up. So we've followed.



To: Jamie153 who wrote (421090)10/18/2019 11:53:10 AM
From: cosmicforce  Read Replies (2) | Respond to of 541219
 
We had a kid wearing diapers until almost 4 years old - not because we wanted them to but because each kid is on their own track. Having a new child upset the dynamic and this manifested in the potty protest and a bite on their baby brother in a fit of jealousy at 2 1/2 years old after we left we her alone with him for less than a minute - we didn't train her to do that either. Maybe you were lucky in your child rearing but kids of any kind can be a-holes.

Another one, when she was 8 years old, would be attacked by insects that would literally seek her out to sting her. No kidding - I actually saw it happen - I'd thought she'd been provoking them but not this time. My only explanation was that she had a lot of rage that her siblings never had - and I think these triggered reactions in insects which can smell her internal psychological state, probably through a pheromone analog.

I've only been stung three times and of those, in two, the insects were accidentally provoked by me by stepping on a nest or an individual, and the third provoked by someone else who messed with it when it fell into their beer bottle.

So - yeah it would be great if our ancestors were not angry things. But violence is in our genes. Compassion has to be learned and emotions have to be controlled. It is fine to feel rage but not to act on it. It is best if we can learn to manage our internal state and not feel the rage in the first place.