To: abuelita who wrote (101169 ) 4/11/2020 5:57:56 PM From: elpolvo Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 104191 josita-i try to use SO WALK, and sometimes it is very helpful but i find that every so often - too often - i get hung upon the KIND part. why do you ask? have i been rudeto somebody lately? <g> no. i was just curious to see if it's as valid and useful for you or others as it is for me. it's such a no-brainer and so easy to remember. and even if it's wrong... SO WHAT? WHO CARES?what i've decided to do instead of replying in an unkind way, i will instead recommend a post written by someone else which reflects my 'unkind' feelings. how about that? i've done that before too. i usually regret it and later think i should have just said it myself or dropped it. dropping it is GOOD practice for me. it reminds me how quickly the whole universe can change when you don't carry past thoughts and events on a "moral ledger" that determines the "attitude" i'm going to approach people with. then i'm free to engage anyone from any creative attitude i can conjure up or watch appear in the NOW. i like to watch. this is one of the first things comedians learn. if a joke has to be explained or doesn't get a laugh, forget it - drop it! it's always more productive to move on to the next joke than to stop and argue about what's funnie. as much as the female side of me doesn't want to admit it - life is a game. i owe most of my happiness to man disease and the love of sports. when i'm too old to play, i like to watch. i'm watching the master's in my monkey-mind right NOW. tiger made the cut but he's five shots out of the lead. i'm going to root for tommy fleetwood. he's duking it out with rory for the lead. neuvo topico: Re: I'm Not In Love i missed the 80's music scene while i was making other plans so 10CC was not on my radar but i remember hearing the song. i never paid enough attention to it to realize the creativity involved in the soundtrack. listening to it after watching the mini-doc about the making of it was awesome. there was a lot of collective POWER in it. i've always been interested and attracted to the sounds, waves, vortexes, chaos and harmony that the universe is made of and expresses itself through. something very wise (philosophically) could be learned and taught from the study of harmonious wavelengths, currents, frequencies, etc. as they relate to everyday life on the farm and how to build a better mousetrap. i'm sure someone's already "on it". i should goo-goo it. it could be a "science" i skipped in college. -pol