To: jpmac who wrote (6869 ) 2/3/1998 2:51:00 PM From: Rambi Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 71178
jp, where you been hiding, girl? I feel sure your rounds are much more entertaining than mine which consist of driving to the high school, driving to the cleaners, driving to the grocery store, driving to the bank, driving to basketball practice, driving to WalMart, driving to--well-you get the idea. My life drives me crazy. That site brought back vivid memories of my father mixing Manhattans in a silver cocktail shaker on Sundays after church for whomever they had invited for dinner. I have all Mother's crystal now- beautiful sets of martini glasses and sherry glasses and parfait glasses and mysterious shapes for drinks I can only imagine. My brother claimed the cocktail shaker. He also took the old silver tray taken from a hotel after a postwar party in the 40's. My mother informed us that this tray had been stolen the same night my father, after consuming a great many martinis, had played Flight of the Bumblebee on the hotel piano and every time he hit a wrong note which, given his inebriated state, happened with some frequency, he shouted, "Damn! Another bad note!" and pulled the ivory out. This left the piano pretty much ivoryless, and resulted in his being asked to leave by the hotel management. He told them that was fine with him as the piano was in lousy shape anyway. He took the tray on the way out as payment, being of the opinion that he had provided a lot of entertainment for the crowd, which did seem to appreciate his performance My mother did not. But she didn't have much sense of humor. And she didn't know he had taken the tray until he pulled it out from under his shirt when they got home. She said it was a good thing there were a lot of places to go in the Hartford area where they lived, or their social life would have been severely restricted by my father's persona non grata status at so many bars and hotels. My father had come home from the war observing even fewer social conventions than he had when he left and he'd never observed many to begin with. She served appetizers on that tray every time they entertained, so I think somewhere inside her, she must have enjoyed those times more than she admitted.