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Pastimes : Let's Talk About Our Feelings!!! -- Ignore unavailable to you. Want to Upgrade?


To: Ignacio Mosqueira who wrote (18641)3/16/1998 12:22:00 PM
From: Jane Hafker  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 108807
 
Your point is you were strongly attracted to women from an early age.
Join a huge multitude of males in that.

Showering with men is equally natural, and bonds men somehow to their maleness. But had the male showers been full of men who primarily turn on to little boys I would not like to know the outcome. The truth is, when a boy is 8, it probably is time to separate him from the women. But, only because the adult women would realize a boy of 8 has very big eyes.

I believe there is a natural plan which works perfectly, and there is no greater pull on earth than pure male to pure female. And there are very unattractive women who are man crazy and the men are greatly attacted to also, there are very girly men that can be a real turn on in their own strange way, so it is hard to classify as to purely physical attributes of purely male and purely female. But in that area, the pure hetero does definitly get the message across with everything they do and say. It's called sex appeal.

It is all the inbetween where there is very little, if anything, going on, and things happen in these areas, and people wander here and there.
The rest spend their lives intoxicated with the opposite sex. That presents lifelong battles with the soul, but like Jesus said, in the world you WILL HAVE problems with everything, but be of good cheer for I have overcome all of your tendencies to destroy yourself.
(paraphrase)

But the instinctive male/female chemistry goes beyond miles beyond lust. It's the walk, the talk, the whole thing one sex does specifically to turn on the other. More and more now they are finding it is purely chemistry for the great part. A mix of pheromones which produce endorphines, which is then labeled "love at first sight"

Lust is the last step, and the frosting on the cake. When it is the only step, it is just another depravity that the body cannot control because the depravity is in the drivers seat
driving the vehicle.

But I believe that the Lord has not called me to be a spokesperson for great sex. As a matter of fact, I believe He has quite the opposite in mind for me, having been very, very lenient and forgiving in my case, and we are both quite happy with that.

So, having said that I must shut my mouth. And I really believe everyone here has been rather polite listening to my views for the most part, and that has been nice.

:)