To: epicure who wrote (20258 ) 4/12/1998 7:33:00 PM From: Grainne Read Replies (2) | Respond to of 108807
Yes, X, it was the one where Jim said I should have sex with a German shepherd that I found really objectionable. I think there was some confusion about that which led to a general misunderstanding at SI, and since the subject has resurfaced, I would like to explain it. When I emailed Jill to ask that the dog sex one be removed, I mentioned some of Jim's other posts on background to show her that this was a continuing problem that I had been unable to resolve on my own, and that I was not just being a hysterical ninny. The one I remember including in the email was one at Ask John Galt where Jim was saying thousands of people would be happy when I left here. She wrote me back and said she had removed the post, but when I was reading Galt a couple of weeks later I noticed the really offensive one about the dog was still there. So I wrote her back, saying there had been an obvious misunderstanding--that it was particularly the dog post which bothered me--and then she removed the post I originally was really upset by. At that point I think it looked like I was continually whining, asking posts to be removed willy nilly, but it was Jill's mistakenly removing a less offensive post that started a really big misunderstanding. I think I probably seemed very oversensitive and paranoid at that point, but the facts were more complex. One of the things I realized as the result of all this unpleasantness is that it is all very petty, and ignoring posts that are offensive is a better way to resolve problems. However, I am still concerned about how SI should handle real troublemakers and consistent bullies. Does anyone know if decisions have been made on this issue?