To: SI Brad who wrote (171 ) 4/26/1998 8:24:00 AM From: Lane3 Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 446
Well, my first post has certainly been an enlightening experience for me. I thank all of you who responded. For other lurkers who have never taken the plunge, I suggest you give it a try--once. This is what I've learned. - There are lots of people out there who are willing to take the time to give warm-fuzzies to others. Having already corresponded privately, I knew how helpful people could be, but was still surprised by how welcome everyone made me feel. As a result, I shall take some time today to send thank-you messages (private) to some posters who have provided valuable information in the past and whom I've neglected to thank. - I can see how easily disputes get started and perpetuated. After I posted my lone message, I realized that I had made a poor choice of words and used a stronger word than I had intended. I said "derision" when I meant merely "disparagement." Afterwards, I had concerns that my words would offend and provoke rebuke. Fortunately, that did not occur, but I can see how it could have. In the future I shall be more charitable in my judgment of those posters who can't resist taking the bait from troublemakers or who over-react to a hastily phrased post. And I shall be more careful in my wording in any future posts. Brad, I thank you for your response. I'm clearly missing something, because I have no further understanding of why you continue to define contribution solely in terms of public posting. Perhaps I should infer that it has something to do with your recent transaction--the value of your property being a function of the number of posts or active posters. (BTW, congratulations.) Or perhaps, being an introvert, I "just don't get it." I recognize the need for a certain amount of thread maintenance posting, which is by its nature not information rich, but often this social posting gets out of proportion. There needs to be a critical mass of real information on a thread or IMO the thread becomes useless. I agree that if one has knowledge or insight and chooses not to share, that is selfish. If, however, one has nothing useful to share but continues to produce posts that take up everyone's time, that is just as selfish. I continue to hold the view that those of us who restrain the impulse to post unless we have something to say that is likely to be of real value to readers of those posts "contribute" more to the quality of life on SI than those who act on a need to express themselves publicly at every opportunity, and I shall continue to operate accordingly. Karen