To: jack w garnes jr. who wrote (3810 ) 5/2/1998 9:23:00 PM From: Linda Kaplan Respond to of 7041
Hi, Jack. A couple of different people there were complaining about getting a lot of obscene mail from you a while back. I haven't read that thread for some time. I'm glad to hear all that stuff has stopped. As you know, I was spared and hope that will always be the case. :-) As for David C, I was aware from reading the Vivus thread (if I recall correctly?) that he experimented with using various drugs to enhance his sex life. He posted quite a bit about that if I recall correctly. Experimentation doesn't always make someone an expert on drugs, you know. I personally found his behavior unethical and his judgment very poor in posting information about me (somewhat inaccurately actually) that was shared in confidence. I also found his reactions in this thread to be impulsive, argumentative and trouble-making. He formed conclusions and took actions before obtaining facts, made attacks and accusations towards others before finding out more of the stories and situations, and his behavior towards me was unconscionable. I'd been sympathetic to him privately and found myself repaid with some very unsympathetic behavior. Fortunately I didn't tell him any more about myself, for I'd have found it plastered in some distorted and inaccurate form all over the public boards and probably on the restroom walls. LOL. Of course, what he owes is apologies, (if I lost my temper and did something wrong, I'd sure apologize) but instead he's shoring himself up by pretending to some expertise which I believe he doesn't have. Attending a few meetings and personally experimenting with some drugs does not make someone a scientist. Hey, I'm prone to take people on good faith until proven otherwise. He's now proven otherwise to me. If you're happy with him as a friend, good luck. It may work out fine for you. People act differently towards different people sometimes. Linda