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To: Lady Lurksalot who wrote (10690)5/22/1998 6:23:00 PM
From: Rambi  Read Replies (2) | Respond to of 71178
 
Both your posts are right!
I had a teenage boy taken in by a widow for exactly the same reason---chores. She was always calling me to complain until I exploded and told her he wasn't put there to make her life easier. And she said then take him back. It was awful. He'd been there years. (Maybe that's why I try so hard not to upset people or antagonize them now--other people can get hurt in the crossfire.)
And yes-people want new perfect babies. THere has GOT to be some solution for this...what what what.
I have had successes! A wonderful woman took in two sisters. One went back to the bio mom. The other, though, loved the opportunities, was adopted, graduated from college and is now a teacher.