To: Grainne who wrote (21937 ) 5/26/1998 6:05:00 PM From: Jacques Chitte Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 108807
I think the "breakdown of the family", like the poor, is a thing that has always been with us and will always be with us. While it's a real problem, I'm not sure it's amenable to solution by legislation. The only way to address family problems is at the family level (imho), and the problem with broken families is a bit of a Catch-22. The one thing I share with FT is an abiding faith in a person's self-interest. Most broken families, I imagine, are not deliberately started as such. Typically they'll happen as a result of mischance (a divorce, or a latent abusive situation) or stupidity (extramarital pregnancy by someone who's not rich). So the avg. person seeks to build or hold a working family. Compared to a hundred and fifty years ago - how many per cent of children are raised in two-parent families? Where do I find numbers? Has the family really "broken down", or are we just being made more aware of an ageless problem? Our fiction from Homer on sure is full of broken families. What I don't know is if that's a fair generalization, or if broken families just make for better literature! So - looking at broken families as a Broad Category, we're tempted to discuss Sweeping Solutions. In this land that means social programs. On this thread we have a wide range of opinions as to what constitutes the right level of gov't support. All the way from "Starve'm and let Darwin sort'em out" to "Welfare would work fine if only we sent'em enough money!" Am I advocating discussing this? Naaahhh. I'm not sure any of us woud do a lot more than reiterate our respective credos. Maybe I;m just tired.