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To: Jon who wrote (108)7/24/1998 4:07:00 PM
From: D LEE  Respond to of 139
 
Of a Friend:

i would expect for starters to welcome him into this
good little family, what is earned then by either person,
-after all agreed upon expenses are paid,
(...hard enough!...oh gosh!)......well,

-the remaining might be
split down the middle and then after a short time compared,
asking "who has what...and why"! he may then most immediately
appreciate the penny pincher in you!

Annies folks did that. And then they used to -"each" have
a little spiral notebook they carried around on themselves
at all times "just as important" as their wallet or purse.
They each wrote down what they spent each dollar on and
"used it" to answer the questions above "without arguement"
it was all there! The answers to their financial goals
became obvious quickly!

But the purpose of it was to keep material things and the
demands of society away from the love they shared.
Love was the thing they most valued in this life. In this
way they protected it and avoided arguments that should have
nothing to do with their true love. the importance of their
words could then "at least" be worn out just by the matters
they cared about most, those matters about their love for
eachother in the family.

Once they figured it all out, the appreciated habit remained
with little inconvenience and continued to help them out
in many ways until her fathers death. Annie's mother continues
to do it alone now and can quickly tell you why. Not bad
for a couple brought up on a simple farming life!