To: Cheryl Galt who wrote (24828 ) 8/24/1998 12:57:00 PM From: Cheryl Galt Read Replies (3) | Respond to of 32384
To ALL.ÿ CONGRATULATIONS!!ÿ Words can't describe my feelings about the new spirit on the Thread.ÿ Credit for the amazing change goes to every single one of us. ÿ My sense is that the situation was ripe. The negative emotion on the thread had reached such an intense peak that everyone was (literally) sick of it, and WANTED it to stop. ÿ The old atmosphere was evoking the worst from ALL of us, yet --ÿ when challengedÿ -- we managed to achieve what Alper aptly called a Cease Fire. In the new calm atmosphere, we have a CHANCE to be our better selves.ÿ ÿ My intuition is that a powerful, destructive storm was blowing, then (for more than a day) there was a windless calmÿ ---and now the wind is beginning to blow in the other direction. ----------------------------------------------ÿ ÿ Based on the response so far, I think there actually is HOPE ÿ --- that Peace might break out on the Breakout Thread!ÿ a real peace . . .ÿ ÿ Are we making some kind of Internet history?ÿ ---ÿ and without any technological aids, like V-chips or ignore buttons!ÿÿ Just simple, old-fashioned human integrity.ÿ And a commitment to the philosophy: "People are not for hurting." ----------------------------------------------ÿ ÿ Because of your unanimous positive response, I'm EXTENDING the CHALLENGEÿ --ÿÿ for ONE WEEK ÿ -- from now until NEXT Sunday August 30th at Midnight. ÿ PLEASE RE-READ the terms of our Cease Fire. For convenience, I'll put a copy in the Clubhouse.ÿ Note that, IMO, Item #4 WILL BE THE HARDEST TO ACHIEVE-- will require the most self discipline and integrity.ÿ But the KEY to our success is that each person takes responsibility ONLY for his own impact on the challenge. (Of course, that is strictly my own opinion.ÿ And please excuse my use of the non-inclusive pronoun. I've yet to get the complete hang of that stuff!) -------------------------ÿ Because of our diverse population, personalities, and viewpointsÿ -- and the charged atmosphere of gambling (er investing)ÿ --ÿ there will surely be irritations and slip-ups.ÿ We ARE human, after all. <Gggg>.ÿ In the new calm atmosphere, I hope we can all try to be patient, and cut each other lots of slack.Now here's the tough one: I think it's important to acknowledge at this point that, in the heat of the war, really hurtful personal attacks were made.ÿ Though people put up a crusty front, the feelings of many were deeply hurt.ÿÿ The wounded include Henry Niman, Tony, Bob Barry, Steve (Fugazi), Mudcat, Bernie McDermott, Nancy Hammond, Wallace Rivers, Andrew, and myself.ÿ Andrew, I had mixed feelings at the time, and still regret, the barb I launched at you. I chose a poor way to deal with a problem, and I'm sorry that you were hurt. But it's over, it's done.ÿ Please let's not waste any energy on guilt/blaming/resentment.ÿ Let's instead spend that energy practicing healthier, respectful,ÿ MORE EFFECTIVE communication techniques to deal with controversy.ÿ THANKS again to ALL of you. Pardon my rambling.ÿ (Off soapbox) Back to investment-strategy discussions, Cheryl