To: aknahow who wrote (25336 ) 9/11/1998 6:00:00 AM From: Cheryl Galt Read Replies (2) | Respond to of 32384
>> While I have in the past thought Henry should just give up on trying to do anything about various negative post I can see why he is concerned. I agree. Unfortunately, the "Ignore Method" was never tried. And it's now to the point where this "game" might not only embarrass Henry, but also make a laughing stock of our company. If the old method of resistance was futile, (See samples attached to George's message), it's time for a new strategy. --------------- What's developed is a clear case of "Natural Consequences." I learned this from raising kids (and volunteering in their schools): If people "punch my buttons" and I over-react, and go into my frantic, screaming-meemie act, they will just LOVE that, and they will do it again. And again. And some more. And soon a crowd will form. When someone punches my buttons, they have a desired result. Stop giving them the desired result (the game's PAYOFF), and they won't enjoy punching my buttons anymore. Finally, they will quit and go away. This does work. If I am consistent. Eventually, when they discover I have no punchable buttons, they will cease to even try to get my goat. (I have not yet reached that stage of Nirvana.... But I'm working on it. So, however, are the kids. <G>) But, play into their hand, be totally PREDICTABLE, and you see what develops. --------------- It was FUN for them to see Henry rant and rave, and cast suspicion on tony, and speculate on "handles," and give long lists of links that ADVERTISE THEIR GAME. So they did it more, and called their friends, and Henry even advertised the game all over the Web. -------------------------------- Even if Yahoo WANTED to help (and why should they? The relentless free advertising of the "Niman Ligand Game" is probably generating record HITS for them -- something their paid advertizers just love), a wild site like Yahoo CANNOT provide any substantial help, IMO. All they can do is put up some sort of screen, some sort of defense. And we know, offense always quickly trumps defense. Fix one problem, and another will soon crop out -- so long as Henry Niman continues to provide the "PAYOFF" for the jokers' game. But, since the game is NO FUN without Henry's participation, it seems worth a try to dry that up. What do you say, Henry? Make an announcement: Henry Niman speaking. Game over. This is September 11, 1998 at 9:00 AM EDT. I will have NOTHING further to say on this thread. Anyone speaking in a name similar to mine is an imposter. The Ligand-Niman Game is hereby cancelled for lack of interest. Over and Out. Post it to the zero point, and to the end point. Then mean it. ----------------------- This would have worked a lot better at the start. At the start, he could have simply ignored the trouble-makers, not "honored" them with recognition. But now (though it might take a while to peter out), there's nothing to be gained by hanging around there. And plenty to lose. ----- IMO Good Luck, Henry. Cheryl