To: Rick Julian who wrote (24889 ) 9/20/1998 12:06:00 AM From: Grainne Read Replies (2) | Respond to of 108807
Rick, your posts are thoughtful and deep, and I am not sure as I sit in the dark here, sort of sleepy and half worried about the exact number of mosquitos who are biting some portion of my flesh at any given moment, that I can do justice to them. So I will try to address small parts of your arguments. I guess I should first reiterate that I think most people NEED religious beliefs, to comfort them and to make sense of the universe and of life. I would not agree that religion's potential is only limited by the quality of those who practice it, because everything I have ever read indicates that the poorer and less educated people are, the stronger their religious beliefs, statistically speaking. First, I do not believe that this group is of lower quality than richer, more educated people. But more importantly, I think that just choosing one belief system over another, or a belief system over atheism, causes divisiveness and brings tribal instincts to the foreground. It is very threatening when you have put a lot of eggs into a basket that is invisible, and someone else comes along and says all your eggs crashed and broke because you didn't have the right basket after all, but their group does. It is even worse if the people who have the better invisible baskets want to kill all of you for heresy!! What is genuine spiritual practice, anyway? It certainly would have to include primitive religious belief systems, paganism, and all the world's religions, not just Christianity. Do you agree with that definition? There is certainly credible research which shows that people who belong to spiritual groups are healthier and happier than those who do not. But what causes these statistical results? Is it the support of a group itself which is therapeutic? Could they all be advocating turning all the fish in the universe blue, and with this purpose be just as centered as they are at enjoying and spreading their religious beliefs? Do people who are lonely and unhappy sort themselves out in their isolation, to skew the statistics? I have always argued that for the individual, any belief system which offers solace and comfort is a benefit. I do think we have reached a point of absurdity, however, when president Clinton USES religion as sort of a front for his bad deeds. He is milking this just as much as he can, trying to hide behind a group of ministers who should really know better, to protect him from the consequences of his behavior. As one former governor pointed out, forgiveness is wonderful, and he forgave the criminals who came before him who had found God. But he did not release them from prison. In 3D reality, even though there can be a spiritual dimension, there are also natural consequences, and Clinton is trying to escape his. Oh, dear, where was I? Marriage? I read E's post, and thought it was just great. I appreciate someone trying to add logic to my ramblings, which get a little emotional sometimes. In any event, marriage is a contract between two people. It can be wonderful or horrible, and like spiritual development requires a great deal of work. The difference I notice right away, however, is that it exists on a material plane--there are two real people who enter into the contract, right here on earth. Religious belief systems, on the other hand, call for suspension of disbelief, faith in things and beings which are supernatural and whose existence cannot be proven. On the other hand, a spouse is often like an old shoe after the novelty has worn off. While comfortable and hopefully a happy experience, there is no debate whatsoever whether the shoe is real or not, and this makes the comparison with spirituality, even in a cynical way, a real stretch.