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Politics : Bill Clinton Scandal - SANITY CHECK -- Ignore unavailable to you. Want to Upgrade?


To: Volsi Mimir who wrote (9075)10/12/1998 4:45:00 PM
From: Daniel Schuh  Read Replies (2) | Respond to of 67261
 
This would be on topic, by Mr. Anderson's estimation perhaps?



To: Volsi Mimir who wrote (9075)10/12/1998 4:49:00 PM
From: one_less  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 67261
 
Is there a National Council on Lying?



To: Volsi Mimir who wrote (9075)10/12/1998 4:59:00 PM
From: Borzou Daragahi  Respond to of 67261
 
The NCSAC's description of sex addiction appears to fit Bill's behavior:

"The key elements of any addiction, whether chemical or behavioral are:

1.Compulsivity- meaning loss of control over the behavior - i.e.
continuing to engage in a particular behavior after repeated
attempts to stop.
2.Continuation despite adverse consequences, such as loss of job,
money, marriage, or health - or arrests or public humiliation.
3.Preoccupation or obsession with obtaining and using the substance
or participating in the behavior to the detriment of other essential
life activities or goals

Addictions are defined not by how much of the drug or behavior is used, but rather the
effects on the person's life. An addiction can be suspected when the behavior has
made the person's life unmanageable. Some clues regarding sex addiction are:

1.The problem behavior is not an isolated occurrence; there is a
pattern of this behavior over a significant time span.
2.Despite a previous significant adverse consequence, the behavior is
repeated. Sexual decisions do not appear to be made on a rational
basis.
3.Increasingly greater risks are taken over time. For example sexual
encounters may initially take place only out of town, but later
closer to home.
4.The person denies to him/herself and others that there is a problem
when it is evident to others, utilizing minimization, rationalization
and justification to continue to engage in their behaviors while
trying explain the problem away.

For the sex addict, sexual behaviors that are secretive, illicit or dangerous carry an
even greater internal experience of intensity or arousal (high)which thus encourages
irrational choices. This is no different than the compulsive gambler who will gamble
far beyond his/her limit to do so, aroused and distracted by the intensity of the
process. Some sexual behaviors that may represent an addictive disorder are:

1.Multiple extramarital affairs
2.Using a position of power to gain sexual access to multiple partners.
3.Use of prostitutes, escorts and sexual massage
4.Indecent telephone calls
5.Excessive expenditure of time and money on pornography/cyber
and phone-sex
6.Multiple anonymous sexual encounters
7.Touching others without permission



To: Volsi Mimir who wrote (9075)10/12/1998 4:59:00 PM
From: one_less  Respond to of 67261
 
At this point, we don't know if we have legitamate recourse for having been lied to. This creates a wave of distrust and an attitute tactical pre-emptiveness that moves through every element of society. Monica and Bill are both victims of their own self indulgiance. We are innocent victims of their irresponsible behavior, regardless of who else we think are bad guys in the political mix of this thing.