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To: joe who wrote (3051)11/15/1998 10:32:00 PM
From: joe  Respond to of 6545
 

correction:

>>Also, I think lots of folks use sex as a substitute
for sex unknowingly, but rationalize it as just...<<

should be "substitute for intimate love" (which people
have a deep need for)



To: joe who wrote (3051)11/16/1998 8:37:00 AM
From: cgraham  Respond to of 6545
 
Joe, thanks for your post...

Don't beat yourself up so much and start defending men (though that's very noble!) because I think, in my humble experience, that many men go through the same revolving door relationships. And I think you'll find some women out there who do the same thing...

But it sounds like you've given this whole relationship/sex correlation a great deal of thought and in my estimation, you have a realistic attitude toward both.
..."It's a very intimate and binding experience,
and just using sex for the main purpose of releasing
sexual energy is just not satisfying anymore. It
dismisses what really happened."
You are so right! And it's heartening to hear this from a guy. Really. So thanks, and it sounds like you are optimistic as well. :) Hope we both find what we're looking for!



To: joe who wrote (3051)11/16/1998 1:52:00 PM
From: Elmer Flugum  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 6545
 
Joe, Are you under some sort of State sanctioned estrogen treatment? From your last post I would say to the doctor to cut back by half on those shots.

Do you find yourself weeping for no reason, having wild mood swings, fingernails becoming more brittle, hair not have that illustrious texture, and experiencing some bloating?

Sure signs of estrogen poisoning.

Len