To: Lizzie Tudor who wrote (17273 ) 12/4/1998 6:27:00 PM From: Ish Respond to of 67261
<<I know you guys must know better than to make statements like this and you are trying to stir things up. First of all, that poor girls actions later on (especially with regards to relationships etc) are all predetermined to fail based on her unfortunate circumstances early on. Her entire life will probably be littered with abusive relationships etc. Incest is just not something you "get over" and move on with your life. Furthermore, Ish, asking a 14 year old to have a baby and give it up for adoption in these circumstances is beyond cruel. Certainly you know that there are many women that could never give up a child for adoption anyway - imagine that, if you can, having a child that is your own flesh and blood and handing it off to some Doctor and never seeing him/her again. Think you could do it? No big deal huh? I want guys like you to proclaim your views on topics like this loudly because it will scare many into the liberal side on these issues. Michelle >> Cute but no sale. Out of you, Dipy, Bob and myself I was the only one to know the situation. She started having sex with her stepfather's brother when she was 12. Nope, I don't think that was right. She was actually the seducer and again some restraint was in order. Now things have worked out for the good, why are you against that? <<Furthermore, Ish, asking a 14 year old to have a baby and give it up for adoption in these circumstances is beyond cruel. Certainly you know that there are many women that could never give up a child for adoption anyway - imagine that, if you can, having a child that is your own flesh and blood and handing it off to some Doctor and never seeing him/her again. >> As opposed to living with killing it? Imagine killing your own baby. That might be with you for a while. <<No big deal huh? >> It would be a very big deal and take some courage. <<I want guys like you to proclaim your views on topics like this loudly because it will scare many into the liberal side on these issues.>> Uh, save your babies life or kill it?