To: Zoltan! who wrote (29898 ) 1/26/1999 2:00:00 PM From: Lizzie Tudor Read Replies (7) | Respond to of 67261
Zoltan, Zoltan, Zoltan. How about digging up a bio on this Ms Crittendon huh? She seems like an average character from the past - unsuccessful, perhaps? Maybe she peaked at say, 25? Lots of women (and men) do, you know. Those were the high school football players and cheerleaders that never grew up. Thats what I think all these guys on this thread are, btw.Physically, women peak early: In dating and marriage markets, they have their greatest power during their 20s , when they are healthiest and most sexually attractive and have access to partners many years older. Really? Power comes from wealth and hardly anybody has it in their 20s (although some do). "It seems a poor trade-off for a society: valuing the work a woman does writing legal briefs more than the hours she might have devoted to helping her child feel her importance in the world." Untrue. Stay at home moms produce women with no work ethic I believe. At least, Ive seen this in my own family. Female children of stay at home moms seem to have no idea how to be upwardly mobile. Just an observation.Ms. Crittenden's second suggestion is for women to marry at an earlier age. Rather than establishing oneself in a career before thinking about family, younger women should exploit their natural advantages to secure husbands and families before the odds turn against them. Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha! Sounds like the "odds" turned against this author! BTW, if you look at Hollywood you will see that the leading ladies are about 15-20 years older than they were allowed to be 30 years ago. Women in Hollywood used to be washed up at 30 - now thats when they get started . Thats because these days, people look at the whole person when they look at women, how smart and successful they are as well as what they look like, about the same as for the men. Everyone wants to be valued for their inner person I think and this is a big move forward. Of course, the former cheerleaders that peaked at age 20 (like the author) are probably not so happy. Too bad for them! Really Zoltan, this person sounds like Arianna Huffington (aka the barking chihuahua). These people made an entire career out of writing books about what is wrong with women today. Now, who is going to choose that as an occupation except for people that have some underlying problem with themselves huh? Nobody with anything going on reads these jokers (I know I dont).