To: Rick Julian who wrote (31147 ) 2/18/1999 11:20:00 PM From: Grainne Respond to of 108807
<<I believe there is a psychological element, a neurotic component, that overlays and completes the big picture of hyperpromiscuity among gay males.>> I would tend to agree with this, although I would not support any argument that it is a dysfunction on its own. I think any repressed group tends to rebel and perhaps overdo when a glimpse of freedom is had. I think in a way that this is unfortunate, because the outrageous aspect of gay pride parades, for example, feeds the anti-homosexual agenda of the far right in this country. I do think it is understandable, however. Do you know anything about the episode at the Stonewall bar in New York in, I believe it was 1969, where a bunch of homosexuals rebelled against police who were harassing them? This was a beginning of the nascent civil rights movement among gays, and as you can see it was only thirty years ago. You might remember that the early feminists were pretty obnoxious in their own way, refusing to shave their underarms or legs, or wear bras. Rebellion tends to be strident when it is new. When you add the alcohol and drug abuse that some homosexuals exhibit, and the desire to kill psychic pain by escapist activities, it is not really surprising that many of them are promiscuous, or neurotic. This does not mean they are dysfunctional as a group, however, and should not mean that they are deprived of basic human rights. Your anecdotal stories of you and some acquaintances performing in bars and not going home with every woman in sight is refreshing, but does not in itself mean that heterosexuals are healthy and normal, and homosexuals are neither.