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Pastimes : Let's Talk About Our Feelings!!! -- Ignore unavailable to you. Want to Upgrade?


To: Sidney Reilly who wrote (31483)2/21/1999 7:54:00 PM
From: E  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 108807
 
<I actually do feel sorry for gays, is
that bad? After all I do think they have a
problem that has ruined their lives and it's sad
to see. >

I think you just can't see something so obvious. The ruination of a gay life is your attitude, commonly shared. (Don't bother to say irresponsible, unhealthful practices ruin it, please, the reply to that is boringly obvious and has been discussed here.)

Surely you comprehend that there is more than one way to have a happy and fulfilling life? Friends? Meaningful work? Joy? Sexual joy?

Here's a paragraph from a novel that i remembered when I read your ironical expression of pity for the victims of your intolerance:

He came out of his stasis saying something about what an abyss it must be to be homosexual in a society whose every gesture of law and culture makes you feel unclean. It was a form of crucifixion. He himself couldn't imagine anything more perverted than being forced to act against your sexual orientation.

It's true. It's appropriate to feel sorry for people being crucified in this way.

Why don't you stop? I don't understand what it is to you what other people do with their genitals.

[In EDIT window: I was catching up on some posts when I came across this one of Sidney's, and replied to it. After posting my reply, I see that everything in it has been said....]



To: Sidney Reilly who wrote (31483)2/22/1999 11:51:00 AM
From: Edwarda  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 108807
 
I actually do feel sorry for gays, is that bad? After all I do think they have a problem that has ruined their lives and it's sad to see.

Do you really know anyone who is gay? I mean really well?

I do, my dear, and they have lives that are happier, more fulfilled, and more committed than the lives of many of the straight people I know.