To: jim kelley who wrote (105631 ) 2/27/1999 5:00:00 PM From: Uncle Frank Read Replies (3) | Respond to of 176387
*** OT *** Saturday musings on Internet Intimacy I'm in my middle 50s, so I can clearly remember pre-TV days. The family would gather around the big radio in the living room at night and listen to Jack Benny, The Shadow, The Lone Ranger, and many other what were to become classics. As a little kid, I'd shut my eyes and "see" those shows more clearly than I've ever been able to since the advent of television. Of course, Howdy Doody wasn't possible without that little screen <g>. With this in mind, I was nervous going to a reunion with strangers last night. Let me clarify that; I know Sonki, Stockman_Scott, freeus, and the half dozen other "dellheads" I was meeting for dinner and conversation about our favorite investment, Dell Computers, but only through cyberspace relationships on the SI discussion threads. I had read their profiles (but who knows what is fact and what is fiction on the internet), and had long discussions with each of them. But meeting them in the flesh was scary; what if they didn't measure up to the images I had created of them? Or worse, what if I didn't measure up to theirs? It turns out that internet contact had given me a perfect understanding of the "essence" of each of these good people. We had a grand time comparing our visions of Dell's future, online investing, hedging our "fortunes" once they were made (one of the group already owns 50,000 shares of dell, while another owns under 1,000) and many other topics that we discussed with fervor. Despite great differences in age and wealth, we had a marvelous time talking with each other; our post-dinner conversation lasted over 3 hours, and no one was anxious to be the first to leave. Internet friendships can be intimate, but, unlike the radio/tv analogy, they're even better in person. Unc