SI
SI
discoversearch

We've detected that you're using an ad content blocking browser plug-in or feature. Ads provide a critical source of revenue to the continued operation of Silicon Investor.  We ask that you disable ad blocking while on Silicon Investor in the best interests of our community.  If you are not using an ad blocker but are still receiving this message, make sure your browser's tracking protection is set to the 'standard' level.
Pastimes : Let's Talk About Our Feelings!!! -- Ignore unavailable to you. Want to Upgrade?


To: Grainne who wrote (32344)3/10/1999 11:54:00 PM
From: Dayuhan  Read Replies (2) | Respond to of 108807
 
sensitive parents who actually spend a good deal of time with their
children in relaxed circumstances would be fairly aware of what the issues were.


Right, and also wrong: every parent has a blind spot, and kids are incredibly good at slipping into them. My parents spent huge amounts of time with me, and were as sensitive as anyone could ask, and to this day they don't know what many of the issues were. I suspect that one obstacle is the tendency of parents to focus on relieving their children of whatever the greatest trouble they faced as children was, which often leads us to forget that there are other troubles.

I've always found it odd that young women, and even many older women, so often draw their cues from the fantasy worlds of models and movie stars, instead of from the people they interact with every day. Given the myth of female sensitivity, one would expect it to be the other way around; I doubt that I will ever understand it.