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To: Jane4IceCream who wrote (41783)4/5/1999 10:05:00 AM
From: William Brotherson  Read Replies (2) | Respond to of 50264
 
Good Morning Everyone,

I'm a little late with this mornings story but just couldn't be helped, Dr's......

The test of time is what makes most friendships great, not the test of how popular one might be at the moment!!!

All I Would Ever Need

I had always felt like a misfit in school. My friends,
although good and true friends, were not in the crowd of
popular kids in school. Besides, I was sure I was funny
looking. I just didn't fit the mold.
Parading constantly before my eyes was "the fun group"
- the popular kids - always laughing and whispering, never
sad or depressed, skipping their way through school, the
best of friends. Teachers loved them, boys loved them, the
whole school loved them. I worshipped them and wanted to be
just like them. I dreamed of the day that they would accept
me.
My dream came true when I turned fourteen and I tried
out for the cheerleading squad. To my surprise, I was
chosen. Almost instantly, I was thrust into the "in crowd."
I felt like a butterfly coming out of a cocoon. I changed
my hair and the way I dressed. Everyone thought the change
in me was fantastic - new clothes, a new group of friends
and a new outlook on life.
Almost overnight, the whole school knew who I was, or
at least they knew my name. There were parties and
sleepovers, and of course, cheering at the games. I was
finally one of the popular kids. Everyone I had hoped to
know, I knew. Everything I had wanted to be, I was.
Something strange was happening to me, however. The
more I was included with the "in crowd," the more confused I
became. In reality, these people were far from perfect.
They talked behind each other's backs while they pretended
to be best friends. They rarely had a truly good time but
smiled and faked it. They cared about what I was wearing
and who I was seen with. But they didn't care about who I
was, what I believed in, what my dreams were or what made me
who I was. It was a shock to see them as they really were,
instead of as I had "thought" they were.
I began to feel a huge sense of loss and
disappointment. But worst of all, I realized that I was
becoming just like them, and I didn't like what was
happening at all. I had to get my life back in order.
I concentrated first on finding out who my real friends
were - the ones who listened and who really cared about me.
They were the only ones who really mattered. I stayed with
cheerleading because I really enjoyed it. But I stopped
hanging around with only the popular kids, and I widened my
circle of friends. I found out that my real friends had
never left me. They were simply waiting for me to come to
my senses. I finally realized that my original friends were
all I would ever need.

by Kerri Warren

Have a great day!!!

wb