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To: Nancy W who wrote (308)4/28/1999 10:33:00 AM
From: Mike 2.0  Respond to of 368
 
Thread retrospect with links...Q: why is hazing allowed?

Nancy W wrote: Were those shooters giving all of America a message? Kids are forced together at school every day. They can be extremely cruel. The least we, as parents, can do is try to make it a better, more tolerant place for them. And, that's where teachers should step in and not allow any of it. Zero tolerance for picking on others! Why is that such a difficult thing to do?

Some answers discussed so far, regarding the hazing epidemic in America's schools:

Parents who don't give a damn what their kids do...too busy pursuing the "American dream" (read: "getting ahead", fulfilling their own material needs isn't everything, it's the only thing...) See:
Message 9105210
Message 9095578
Message 9102943

Faceless Modern Suburbia has been discussed playing a role in detachment from the community and giving rise to hazing behavior - See:
Message 9061886
Message 9141593

Schools that don't give a damn about hazing and/or are too incompetent or blind to the problem. This includes a compulsive over-emphasis in sports and the public school monopoly...if you don't like how they are handling (or refusing to handle) the situation then go pay for your child to go to private school or home school. See:
Message 9133934
Message 9136703
Message 9149671
Message 9150631
Message 9151086
Message 9154408

This is not intended to be an exhaustive list, I know I have missed a lot of very valuable posts. If you know of any, please post a similar message with a link to them...this is just intended to further facilitate discussion, and give newcomers a look at some of the discussion thus far regarding the core malady in schools across the USA, and a key underlying condition which gave rise to the Colorado atrocity: vicious, relentless, and tolerated/ignored school hazing.

Mike