Say there issme, do you really think you can win an argument here? Have you checked your sanity lately? This is their therapy thrill thread. That is all. They are only in it for what they can take to their lonely beds at night.
This whole scene is called 'control'. Have you ever seen a batterer in action? It has different levels. A batterer is one who escalates control needs from emotional battering to verbal battering to physical battering and if none of those works, sometimes they escalate to murder. Interestingly enough, a batterer stops if he gets what he wants at the lower level. It only escalates if he doesn't get what he wants (which is control). This is anger based which is fear based. None of it has to happen but they choose this as their course in life. If we asked their mates, children, pets, I wonder what they would add to this.
Whenever you respond to these persons, you give them some degree of control and it just builds up. Now, if you agreed with what they say, oh my, what a sweet world then. They cry about being attacked, but that is all they ever do, relentlessly, repeatedly, as if no one heard them the previous 100 times!
Isolate these persons. Do not give them one ounce of your power. Boycott them. Do not read their lonely posts. Let them find solace elsewhere. Bless them and let them go their way, far away.
Roger |
