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To: greenspirit who wrote (45584)	7/14/1999 8:01:00 PM
From: jpmac	Respond to of 108807

That and it's not uncommon for a child to scream when s/he doesn't get the desired toy, or to hit when a toy is taken away. These are reactions that most (I hope) people try to teach children is not okay, and that are other ways to deal with the situation. In the case of not getting something, it might be to accept it, sans screaming. As adults we are constantly challenged to deal with and choose our reactions and actions.

To: greenspirit who wrote (45584)	7/14/1999 8:11:00 PM
From: Edwarda	Read Replies (2) \| Respond to of 108807

Michael, I couldn't agree with you more, even as I acknowledge that the sort of thing Chris was citing does affect each person's personal effectiveness. As you may know if you have been lurking before posting, I am basically libertarian--not as much of an ideologue as Terry, but he has his own agenda. Yet I have never forgotten when I was very young and my parents had a small dinner party. The two little girls in their cute pjs said good night to the guests and went to bed like little paragons. While trying to go to sleep, I overheard one of the guests say to my father, "They are adorable and really intelligent. What a pity you don't have a son." My father's response made an enormous difference in my life. What he said was, "Why should I want a son? Daughters are better because there is so much more. I can play basketball with my daughters; I can teach them to box (he was an amateur boxer); and then they get cleaned up and are a whole different experience. Boys just stay being boys." The power of words to affect perceptions! When I married, back in '76, I did not change my surname, not as a major political statement. It was simply an expression of pride in who I already was, personally and professionally. I never had to be a "radical feminist" because I was there already and had no ax to grind, no quarrel with men. I have been told over the years that I am either a mutant or an alien. A few words at precisely the right moment changed my life--because I heard a parent speak them.