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Pastimes : Let's Talk About Our Feelings!!! -- Ignore unavailable to you. Want to Upgrade?


To: Dayuhan who wrote (45606)7/14/1999 8:59:00 PM
From: Rambi  Read Replies (2) | Respond to of 108807
 
I would say that emotion IS a clear part of the response? My children certainly know when I'm angry, but they also can see a response that is either irrational and immediate- a slap, say- or one that is constructive.
Maybe you hit it on the head with the word "reflexive".
One of the most valuable things we learned to do as parents was to say- Go to your room and we'll be up to talk about it.

And I think you're right about not trying to figure out who started it-- that's a losing battle.