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To: Uncle Frank who wrote (4286)7/25/1999 10:28:00 PM
From: Mike Buckley  Respond to of 54805
 
Frank,

I loved it, particularly the part about things to avoid when "helping" adult children. Now I'm trying to figure out if it is possible to help them without doing harm.

Send me $10,000 and I'll let you know if it does me any harm. :)

--Mike Buckley



To: Uncle Frank who wrote (4286)7/25/1999 11:05:00 PM
From: Apollo  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 54805
 
OT Millionaire Next Door......I want them to be paws without being miserly; wonder if that is possible?

I liked the book as well; I think it is valuable to understand how important savings (and investing) can be, so that one isn't overly focused on revenues. I think it is possible to strike a balance so that one "accumulates wealth" without being obnoxious or miserly; one's accumulation of wealth just may not be "prodigious".

Having said that, I heard this morning about a cardiac surgeon acquaintance who buys outdated yogurt for .25, skims off the mold, and eats the rest. Goes to the heart of the issue about extremes, outliers, > 3 standard deviations from the mean, and the expression "my favorite charity is me".

stan



To: Uncle Frank who wrote (4286)7/25/1999 11:20:00 PM
From: chaz  Respond to of 54805
 
It's very clear...Buckley (next post after yours) doesn't think like the rest of us. His tacks are sharper too. Cracks me up.



To: Uncle Frank who wrote (4286)7/26/1999 10:29:00 AM
From: MulhollandDrive  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 54805
 
Uncle Frank,

I haven't read the book yet, but I can only surmise what was said about "helping" adult children. We have loaned our adult children money, made them sign notes and charged interest. I know that sounds absolutely horrible, but my husband and I feel that it's important that our kids (adults) make realistic financial decisions. If "mom & dad" are always there to bail them out of wrong choices, you just perpetuate the behavior.

bp



To: Uncle Frank who wrote (4286)7/26/1999 10:44:00 AM
From: see clearly now  Respond to of 54805
 
Now I'm trying to figure out if it is possible to help them
without doing harm. I want them to be paws without being miserly; wonder if that is possible?

...support them in trusting their instincts...