To: Mike Buckley who wrote (8675 ) 10/25/1999 1:16:00 AM From: tekboy Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 54805
VERY OFF-TOPIC TOO For those who haven't done such "Roots" trips, they are certainly worth thinking about, although the emotions they produce are not always what one expects... A couple of years ago my wife's 86-year-old grandmother decided she wanted to visit the town she and her then-boyfriend (later my wife's late grandfather) had emigrated from 70-odd years earlier. It would be her first trip out of the States ever since arriving. Of course my wife and I encouraged the idea, and soon we were off on an absolutely crazy journey to some former shtetl in the backwoods of western Ukraine. It was a totally '90s trip: the grandmother, my wife and I, and my wife's brother and his English boyfriend, travelling by rented van with an interpreter into the most godforsaken area I've ever been to. Our version of Mike's cemetery story was equally moving: all of the town's 40% preWWII Jewish population, including the grandmother's brother and wider family, had been killed by the Nazis in giant massacres right at the beginning of the German invasion of Russia. The local Ukrainian population hadn't given a damn, nor had the Soviet government, and so the massacre site remained unmarked until 1991, when some emigres had returned and raised enough money to put up a memorial. Anyway, we paid our respects and, like Mike, got led around by the wizened old custodian, who turned out to know some people who had known some people, etc. etc. In the end, the trip was great for my grandmother-in-law, who had an incredible time reminiscing and showing her descendants where she and her late husband had grown up, etc. My wife and I, however, had equally strong emotions in just the opposite direction. Both of us thoroughly detested the region and practically everything in it, and joked that we wanted to erect a statue to the family members who had the good sense to get the hell out of there... :) Sometimes it takes a "roots" trip to make you realize just how American you are... tekboy@andboydoesUkrainianfoodsuck.com