To: Lizzie Tudor who wrote (64519 ) 12/2/1999 3:31:00 PM From: Edwarda Respond to of 108807
Lizzie, I have to go along with Alexander and Ish on the subject of the "greedy elderly voting block." Perhaps because of your own circumstances, you were not exposed as thoroughly as many of us were to the generosity of these people toward their own elders. Of course, it was easier geographically to be of help to parents and grandparents, since people were not as apt to move so very far away as they are now and could be of all kinds of help--help that an elderly person now must buy all too often. Even intensely loving children are now faced with being able to help only on weekends, after a long commute. Meanwhile, Social Security was not originally intended to be a primary source of support, merely a sort of safety net. But I am older than you and I remember all too well the rhetoric that these people heard subsequently with each COLA increase, which always managed to lag during the periods of high inflation. They may be drawing more now than they contributed, but what they contributed was a pretty nice chunk of change from their incomes and rose repeatedly. Now in their old age their children are often far away and not there to help. Moreover, their children have families of their own and the burden on the adult children has grown as lives are prolonged: It's not one or two elderly people for whom to care and run errands and be helpful, it's half a dozen or more. And the spectre of a nursing home always looms.... Lizzie, as you know, I am libertarian and do not endorse most of what has gotten us to this state of affairs. However, I can all too easily understand how these people feel. My uncles, mother, and aunt were lucky in having so much of the next generation on whom appropriately to rely as the previous generation had relied on them. People without this support network have reason to feel fear and anger.