To: greenspirit who wrote (6504 ) 5/28/2000 4:41:00 PM From: Lane3 Read Replies (3) | Respond to of 9127
When I say "black and white thinking" I'm using the expression in the context of the definition of "splitting" I posted earlier.Message 13713118 The term splitting is often used to describe how such a black and white thinking adult will characterize others. For instance, a person who uses splitting as a defense mechanism may view one person as "all good" (perfect, wonderful, pure), and other people as "all bad" (foul, corrupt, hostile and evil). I was not using it as a synonym for single-minded.The people advocating for Elians removal have constantly used a black and white line of thinking which goes something like this. "His father should decide what happens to Elian, end of story." I don't think (editorial light is on) that Marcos, for example is using black/white thinking when he bombards us with "Mi hijo/que se fijen en la esencia." He's being single-minded. He is telling us that, in his priority scheme, the father/son relationship ranks highest. I don't recall him ever saying why. He's so passionate about it that I suspect some personal reason. Whatever his reason, I have not seen him let it create a halo effect around Juan Miguel, as he would do if he were splitting. My own view of this (the editorial light is still on) is that the U.S. being a good world citizen is the highest priority. Since the world has become such a global community and this is an international matter, international considerations take precedence. I hate it when my country's actions make us look like provincial fools or arrogant jerks. I prefer statesmanship. Thus I think it most important here to follow international and U.S. law and common law practices and to be respectful of those who live in other countries and have different ways. Therefore, to make a long story a bit shorter, I think it's up to Juan Miguel to determine Elian's best interests. So I end up on Marco's "side" although we come at it from different angles. That doesn't mean that I don't recognize the evil of Cuba, the love of Marisleysis for Elian, the fumbling of the Justice Department. It only means that these matters are of lower priority. (Editorial light is off.) I thought we had been making some progress on the opinion vs. explanation front. I was ready to move on to findings vs. conclusions and arguments vs. rants. But I see that will have to wait for another day.As far as I'm concerned you have defended the governments actions from the beginning of our conversations. To me, that's "advocating a position". Whether you want to call it that or not is up to you of course. That was not my intent, although I can see how it might appear so to you. My intent was to try to counter your rush to judgment by presenting other plausible explanations for the facts. In doing so, I often used explanations that seem most plausible to me. I did so not to advocate those positions but merely to get you to acknowledge that alternatives exist. (Editorial light is back on.) My working theory is that you so hate Castro and you so hate Clinton that you engage in splitting when it comes to them. I can understand why people hate them. But I don't think that's any excuse for not thinking straight. I deplore Clinton's behavior with Monica and his cavalier regard for the truth. But that does not keep me from recognizing that he did a statesman-like job on NAFTA and China trade, going against one of his key constituencies, because it was the right thing to do for the country. And I certainly do not assume that anything done by the Executive Branch during Clinton's 7 1/2 year watch is as sleazy as some of his personal actions.(Editorial light is off.)