To: E who wrote (86897 ) 11/6/2000 3:46:36 PM From: E Respond to of 108807 My remark about the ability of Palestinian parents to keep their daughters home, while proclaiming their helplessness to reporters to prevent their sons from participating in the rock "throwing," (those slings they whip around their head make the rocks into projectiles adequate for hunting game, actually) refers specifically to the "honour killing" phenomenon. Here's one case in which a 15 year old girl was forced to marry a man because she chatted with him without a male chaperone : "Focus (3): Palestine/Israel "Honour" killings are also regularly reported in the Palestinian territories of the West Bank and Gaza Strip. In the Canadian women's magazine Chatelaine, Sally Armstrong described the fate of one victim: Flirting was a costly mistake for Samera. She was only 15 years old when her neighbours in Salfeet, a small Palestinian town on the West Bank, saw her chatting with a young man without a male chaperone. Her family's honour was at stake; a marriage was quickly arranged. By 16, she had a child. Five years later, when she could stand the bogus marriage no longer, she bolted. In a place where gossip is traded like hard currency, and a girl's chastity is as public as her name, Samera's actions were considered akin to making a date with the devil. According to the gossips, she went from man to man as she moved from place to place. Finally, last July [1999], her family caught up with her. A few days later she was found stuffed down a well. Her neck had been broken. Her father told the coroner she'd committed suicide. But everyone on the grapevine knew that Samera was a victim of honour killing, murdered by her own family because her actions brought dishonour to their name. ... Here in the West Bank, the Palestinian Authority law allows honour killing. Samera's parents are walking the streets of their neighbourhood with their heads held high, relieved that the family honour has been restored. (Armstrong, "Honour's Victims", Chatelaine, March 2000.) Twenty-two other women died in the Palestinian territories in the same year as Samera...."gendercide.org Here's just one more citation that suggests the power of families to control their children's behavior when they desire to: "Antonelli, A., ‘Crimes Not Stories’, Palestine Report, May 22, 1998, 22-24. This article traces the work of the Women’s Centre for Legal Aid and Counselling in the Palestinian West Bank on the issue of violence against women. Although the number of women killed in the name of ‘honour’ remains hidden from official statistics, research carried out by the Centre indicates an annual rise in killings. The restoration of ‘family honour’ through the murder of young women is not considered unusual social behaviour within Palestinian communities... Women activists face an uphill struggle whilst existing legislation serves to protect men who kill in the name of honour... "www1.umn.edu I just kind of figure if there were a will to keep the sons away from danger, there would be a way....